Hello all:
I wanted to relay how we discovered my husband's AVM to see if anyone had any similar stories with postive outcomes. This is all very new, only just having been diagnosed on Saturday, after a bleed in his brain. This is what happened through the stream of emails sent to friends and family. Read from the bottom up to get the chronology correct:
Hey all:
I've had the time to add quite a few people to the email chain this morning, so for those of you who are just finding out what's been happening the past 5 days- please scroll and read from the bottom up to see what has transpired.
The good news to report today is that Paul is home! I brought him home late yesterday afternoon, and as you'd expect, he's very happy to be back in his own home, with the cats and familiar surroundings and no bleeps and beeps and being awakened very few hours.
He was evaluated by a speech therapist yesterday before he was discharged, and although he is still quite fine in a number of ways, there are still significant deficits in speech, comprehension and memory.
Now medically, the neurologist has told me that the AVM is in a "quiet" part of his temporal lobe, so I am hoping that in time, as his brain heals, the fog will lift a bit and things will improve significantly. I have been told to measure his progress in weeks/months as opposed to days.
The earliest the Hopkins speech pathologists can see him is around Feb. 10th, but the inpatient s.p. gave me some exercises to work on with him until then. His mother and aunt are flying in from the UK today, so I will review it with them as well. They will also be able to take over watching him for short periods of time while I run errands and such.
As far as visitors, I will be sending a separate email out with a specific set of instructions on communicating with him if/when you come to visit (I'm going to shorten the list of recipients to locals and friends who might want to talk to him via Skype).
He does much better face to face, one on one rather than the phone, so if you have skype, please add me as a contact and maybe we can sit him down to see you.
So-that's if for now...
I'm going to keep it to 2-4 people/day, short visits (1/2 hour so so), but he is going to be bored stiff and has said that he will welcome the company. I think it will help his memory as well.
Thanks all, please keep all those positive thoughts coming in the general direction of Baltimore.
Talking soon,
Beth
PS. I had to send from this email address because yahoo has now temporarily tagged me as a spammer. ;-) Too many addresses… oh well…
--- On Sun, 1/30/11, Beth wrote:
From: Beth
Subject: Paul in hospital status UPDATE Jan 30 2011
Date: Sunday, January 30, 2011, 4:26 PM
Hey all: First off, I've added a couple more people to this email chain, so for those of you just finding out, scroll all the way to the bottom. to see what's been going on.
As of today, they've moved Paul up to a regular room in the neuro ward, Meyer bldg, Johns Hopkins.
The plan was that he was going to be able to go home tomorrow or Tuesday to convelesce at home, with daily trips to the occupational and speech therapist, and then he WILL get BRAIN SURGERY here at Hopkins in the spring to remove the AVM.
Super strange coincidence, this being a rare condition (only 1 in every 250,000-300,000 people)- turns out my dad had the very same thing, back when I was 15, and had successful brain surgery here at Hopkins. This was the 80's- back in the day when they had to cut your whole skull open, instead of just a little access hole like they do now... anyway he recovered well from that as I am hopeful Paul will as well.
Attached is a picture of him today. Once he is allowed home, I will coordinate visits daily. He is going to be bored stiff and will welcome the company, I just want to spread them out so as to not tire him.
I'll keep ya'll updated as things develop... Cheers, Beth
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