Hi. While my wife and I were having dinner last night, somehow we just ended up talking about our AVM experience. After going through all that we’ve gone through, we thought back to things we wish we had/hadn’t done.
One thing that we wish we would have done, and the reason why I’m posting this discussion, was to insist that our doctor put my wife through physical therapy or that we should’ve found physical therapy for my wife following her AVM-rupture.
Following her AVM rupture she’s had post-stroke like symptoms, weakness, less fluid like movements, less coordination on one side of the body. Back then, we’d always thought that with regular everyday activities that her body would re-adjust and that she would regain most of her abilities.
It’s been almost 3 years since her rupture, we have a baby now, and we still see things going on with that side of the body. During our dinner last night, she felt that the weakness on that one side makes life a little difficult when being with our daughter (i.e. little frustrations when holding her, changing her diaper, giving her a bath…etc.)
At the time that we’d asked whether or not physical therapy would be necessary (about 3 years ago) they said not to worry about it. They’d told us, and even her regular physician said, that “Oh, your case isn’t so serious. You can eat, breath, walk… have more or less a normal lifestyle. You won’t need physical therapy… your case is mild compared to others.” But, you know what? It does make a difference, at least in her life and and how it is when she interacts with our daughter.
So, just something you might want to consider if your case is similar to ours. Do the physical therapy if you can… My wife feels like it would’ve made a big difference in her life. Good luck and god bless.